Showing posts with label skin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label skin. Show all posts

Wednesday, 20 April 2016

The facial that seriously raised the bar


Unretouched and no filter

If you're over the age of thirty chances are you've had at least one facial in your life. How was it? Anything to write home about? Yup. I've had some shockers too. That was until Easter week just gone when I had what will now be referred to as The Best Facial Of My Life. If you're into facials or are a facial skeptic, then read on...

The Details
Location: Claridge's
Facialist: MARIA (put her name in your phone now, or better still, burn MARIA into your brain. I've had it tattooed on my wrist, just to be on the safe side).
Brand: Sisley
Name of facial: The Supreme Anti-Ageing Facial






Art Deco heaven
Entering Claridge's is a treat in itself (that sweeping staircase) and the lift up to the spa had a long seat stretching the length of it (remember the lift in Pretty Woman?). The lovely gentleman manning the lift said the lift was over 100 years old (and so, I think, was he. Bless him ;)

On my arrival at the spa (6th floor) I was warmly received by Maria who escorted me to a changing room so beautifully decorated and old school, I could have cried. Think wood-panelled lockers, tiny mosaic floors and marble basins. I stripped down to my knickers (sorry, TMI), donned the chunky robe and slippers provided and made my way to the treatment room.

I should stress my iPhone photos really don't do the room justice. There was a luxurious shower at one end and the room generally exuded the most wonderful energy. I couldn't wait to lie down and fall asleep!

Once settled on the massage table Maria began by asking me questions about my skin and explained how she would tailor the facial to my needs. I've used the odd Sisley product in the past, including the cult Black Rose Mask (£95.50; intensely hydrating and very often, understandably, out of stock) and their Express Flower Gel (£80; also incredible) but was intrigued to try more of the range.

Game changer
I can't remember the exact order in which things happened (I've never felt so at ease during a facial) but there was a shoulder massage (which I loved), an exfoliating mask, various serums, a moisturising mask, an eye contour mask(!), a hand and foot massage(?!) and the most incredible facial massage I have ever had.

It's hard to describe what Maria did during the facial massage but at one point, about 20 mins in, using various parts of her hands and fingers, she deployed a series of fast movements that I can only describe as 'intense pummelling'. She was so quick I genuinely wondered if she'd switched to a machine, but no, she can naturally achieve that kind of pressure and speed! It wasn't uncomfortable, rather, I didn't really want it to stop because I knew how much my face was going to benefit from the movements. And sure enough, as soon as the facial was over, I raced (albeit rather sleepily) into the changing room to inspect my skin and was delighted with the results.

I looked like I'd had botox. In a good way!


My skin about 5 minutes after facial ended. Remnants of my mascara can still be
seen but my skin is MAKEUP FREE .

10 mins later, with a light makeup having been applied. 
I still cannot get over how good my skin looks.

I'll let Claridge's explain the benefit of the anti-ageing massage:

"In a single session this treatment gives the skin a real boost, wipes away traces of fatigue, reactivates its radiance and dramatically recontours skin tissues. After a few sessions in short succession, facial muscles dramatically and lastingly regain their tone, helping to reposition facial volumes. The cheekbones are lifted, wrinkles are reduced, the face’s centre of gravity is raised."




Post facial makeup
It feels almost sacrilegious to cover up one's skin post-facial so for my meeting I opted for a sheer tinted moisturiser (Chantecaille's miraculous 'Just Skin', just along the t-zone) with strategic concealing (Maybelline's FIT concealer) around areas of visible redness (nose, chin etc). I suddenly felt like drawing attention to my eyes (ah the confidence that comes from knowing your skin looks good!) so relished applying a classic flick together with a light coat of mascara (avoid too much on the lashes if the makeup is minimal). I finished off the look with a swoosh of bronzer (Chanel Les Beiges in shade 30), a quick brush through the brows (ModelCo) and a tinted lip balm.

Claridge's Easter display in their foyer caught my 
eye as I was leaving. Love the bird cages!




Spring skirts
I was meeting a client straight after the facial so decided to wear my new red J Crew skirt which I purchased in the A/W sale. I should mention I never wear red but my friend and super stylist Jacqueline suggested I should (and when Jac suggests something you do not ask questions. You simply nod and buy it). I now wear it all the time. In fact, as I type this, I've just realised I'm wearing the exact same outfit! *blushes*

Verdict
You know those treatments where you come out thinking, "well that was nice'n'all but I wouldn't go again" well, I came out thinking "That was INCREDIBLE. It's my birthday in 3 months. I'm not sure I can wait that long?!!"

I'll admit, they're not the cheapest of facials (they start at £90 for 60 mins) but boy are they luxurious and I wouldn't honestly recommend it if I didn't think it was worth your hard earned cash.

The facials (current price list at 20/04/16)
The Sisley Facial (£110 for 60 mins)
Ecological Facial for Men (£110 for 60 mins, or £155 for 90 mins)
The Supreme Anti-Ageing Facial (£135 for 60 mins, or £205 for 90 mins)

Be sure to take a look at Claridge's Beauty Treatments as they offer some gorgeous looking package deals, including lunch in the restaurant.

Links:
Description of treatments (PDF)
Prices (PDF, as at 20/04/2016)

Wednesday, 2 September 2015

Makeup + cancer: The one tip women going through chemo really want




If you read my post last week on Makeup + Depression you're probably thinking 'Jeez Louise' (yup, I'm on a roll ;)...but hear me out. This is important.

I want to share a conversation I had recently with a wonderful lady who's undergoing chemo.

The lady in question runs a B&B in Guernsey (which, by the way, was the best god darn B&B I've ever stayed in. To protect her privacy I shan't mention her name, or the name of the B&B, but if you're thinking about visiting Guernsey anytime soon, inbox me!).

Laura* and I got to talking after a delicious breakfast**. I knew she was undergoing chemo because she wore a scarf tied several times around her head and had no eyebrows (and I suspected no lashes although was never close enough to see).

Not that you would know Laura had cancer...she was one of the most inspiring women I've ever met.

* Not her real name
** Full English, fresh coffee, homemade lemon curd(!!) served in a crystal condiment thingy (technical term), muesli and Guernsey milk which, quite frankly, should be illegal.




How much makeup is too much?
Laura and I soon got chatting about makeup (she'd sweetly enquired what I did for a living) and I told her I'd volunteered a couple of years ago for Look Good Feel Better - the charity that provides hair, makeup and beauty lessons for women undergoing treatment for cancer. She'd also experienced a session as a participant.

I did two sessions with the charity and after each one I remember feeling inspired and confused; inspired because the sessions were full of the most extraordinary, talented, strong, beautiful, broken-but-not-beaten women; and confused because the makeup look we taught involved learning something like thirteen (or was it ten?) steps: skin, base, concealing, eye shadow, eye liner, brow pencil, bronzer, blush, lip liner, lipstick...and so on.

Is this what women undergoing chemo really want? To learn how to do a full face of makeup? Laura's response to my recounting the steps was most humbling.

The reality
Laura said she can map how she'll be feeling according to the weeks pre- and post- her cancer treatment. Week one (post-chemo) is spent desperately trying to muster the energy to get out of bed (no mean feat for a lady who runs a busy B&B!). Week two sees the arrival of a bit more energy but makeup is far down the list of priorities. Week three (the week before the next chemo treatment) and she's just starting to feel like herself again. Chemo and repeat.

"I'd rather concentrate on my skin during chemo, not my makeup....because when my skin's looking good, I feel good'.




Skin deep
When a person's body is being hammered by chemicals one of the first places this will show (in addition to hair loss) is their skin.

Rather than covering up very dry, itchy, red and sometimes flaky skin with makeup it seems what women with cancer would much rather focus on are the products that will help to calm their skin and edge it back to looking more vital. I'm not saying LGFB classes don't teach good skincare, they certainly cover this at the beginning of their sessions, but if this is the one thing women (and men) with cancer can find the energy to do during chemo then I wonder whether there should be more of a focus on skincare and less on makeup?

Little makeup, huge difference 
I can imagine that, like Laura, once a person's skin is feeling calmer (less red and more hydrated), applying one, maybe two items of makeup would feel doable.

If I were to pick three makeup items I thought would give someone going through cancer a little bit more confidence during treatment I'd have to say:
  1. A waxy brow pencil (or Anastasia Dipbrow Pomade which is regularly hailed by Beauty Bloggers although I'm yet to try it)
  2. Concealer (preferably with a slight peachy hue to counteract dark circles (e.g. Bobbi Brown Tinted Eye Brightener which has a touch of corrector in it to help tone down dark cricles)
  3. Creme blush (Stila's Convertible Colour would be perfect on dry skin as it's lovely and hydrating. Tip: Be sure to tone down any visible redness on the cheeks first with a light tinted moisturiser or concealer/foundation).

More skincare tips
If you'd like to know more about how to look after your skin during cancer I really liked this post. It mentions things like choosing hypoallergenic products over ones that are overly perfumed and advises when to apply products after washing (within 3 minutes is good apparently!).

Meeting Laura inspired this post and really opened my eyes to the kinds of 'beauty' tips women living with cancer are really after. I hope this post will inspire you to talk to your friends or perhaps someone you know, male or female, who's currently undergoing chemo and could do with some skincare or light makeup tips.

As always, thank you for reading.

Please note: It is not my intention with this post to disrespect or to criticise the wonderful work Look Good Feel Better undergoes and the difference it makes to the lives of those dealing with cancer.

Image credits and with grateful thanks to:

Erin (surname unknown):
http://www.photosensitive.com/breast-cancer-survivors.php

Claire Featherstone
http://www.chemoheadwear.co.uk

Sharon Blynn
http://blog.suburbanturban.co.uk/hair-loss/how-i-lost-my-hair-and-found-myself-a-guest-blog-by-sharon-blynn/